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Seasons of Relationships
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a
lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know
exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually
to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem
like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason, you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out
and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is
that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their
work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered
and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is
because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those
things you must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people (any way); and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships and areas of
your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship
is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life....
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